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I have a list of folks I know
all written in a book,
and every now and then...
I go take a look.

That is when I realize these names...
they are a part,
not of the book they're written in....
but taken from the heart.

For each name stands for someone...
who has crossed my path sometime,
and in that meeting they have become...
the reason and the rhyme.

Although it sounds fantastic...
for me to make this claim,
I really am composed...
of each remembered name.

Although you're not aware...
of any special link,
just knowing you, has shaped my life...
more than you could think.

So please don't think my greeting...
as just mere routine,
your name was not...
forgotten in between.

For when I send a greeting...
that is addressed to you,
it is because you're on the list...
of folks I'm indebted to.

So whether I have known you...
for many days or few,
in some ways you have a part...
in shaping things I do.

I am but a total...
of many folks I've met,
you are a friend I would prefer...
never to forget.

Lights Down Low


Michael Joseph Jackson
August 29, 1958 ~ June 25, 2009
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It is still hard to believe that MJ is gone, and I keep praying that someone will come along and say it was a mistake. His energy was, and still is, ever so powerful, for he was bigger than life in the music industry. We will miss you Michael, your vibrancy, your spirit, and your musical genius, for there is none other like you; nor will there ever be. You touched everyone all over the world with your electrifying presence! My heart and prayers go out to his family; especially his beautiful children. Stay strong little ones. You now have an Angel forever watching over you.
Rest in Peace Dear Michael. You and your music will forever be a part of us.
~ Yigaquu osaniyu adanvto adadoligi nigohilvi nasquv utloyasdi nihi ~





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We are Phenomenal


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"Phenomenal Women"
Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I'm telling lies.
I say,
It's in the reach of my arms,
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
Then they swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.
I say,
It's the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
the swing in my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Men themselves have wondered
what they see in me.
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them,
They say they still can't see.
I say,
It's in the arch of my back,
The sun of my smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Now you understand
just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing,
It ought to make you proud.
I say,
It's in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
the need for my care.
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

©
Maya Angelou

"Touched by an Angel"
We, unaccustomed to courage
exiles from delight
live coiled in shells of lonliness
until love leaves its high holy temple
and comes into our sight
to liberate us into life.

Love arrives
and in its train come ecstasies
old memories of pleasure
ancient histories of pain.
Yet if we are bold,
love strikes away the chains of fear
from our souls.

We are weaned from our timidity
In the flush of love's light
We dare be brave
And suddenly we see
That love costs all we are
And will ever be.
Yet it is only love
Which sets us free.

© Maya Angelou


"I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings"
A free bird leaps on the back
Of the wind and floats downstream
Till the current ends and dips his wing
In the orange suns rays
And dares to claim the sky.

But a BIRD that stalks down his narrow cage
Can seldom see through his bars of rage
His wings are clipped and his feet are tied
So he opens his throat to sing.

The caged bird sings with a fearful trill
Of things unknown but longed for still
And his tune is heard on the distant hill for
The caged bird sings of freedom.

The free bird thinks of another breeze
And the trade winds soft through
The sighing trees
And the fat worms waiting on a dawn-bright
Lawn and he names the sky his own.

But a caged BIRD stands on the grave of dreams
His shadow shouts on a nightmare scream
His wings are clipped and his feet are tied
So he opens his throat to sing.

The caged bird sings with
A fearful trill of things unknown
But longed for still and his
Tune is heard on the distant hill
For the caged bird sings of freedom.

© 1969 Maya Angelou

Quotes:

"There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you."

"We may encounter many defeats but we must not be defeated."

"One isn't necessarily born with courage, but one is born with potential. Without courage, we cannot practice any other virtue with consistency. We can't be kind, true, merciful, generous, or honest."

"A bizarre sensation pervades a relationship of pretense. No truth seems true. A simple morning's greeting and response appear loaded with innuendo and fraught with implications. Each nicety becomes more sterile and each withdrawal more permanent."

"Achievement brings its own anticlimax."

"Pursue the things you love doing, and do them so well that people can't take their eyes off you. All other tangible rewards will come as a result."

"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."

"I love to see a young girl go out and grab the world by the lapels. Life's a bitch. You've got to go out and kick ass."

"Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at it destination full of hope."

" My great hope is to laugh as much as I cry; to get my work done and try to love somebody and have the courage to accept the love in return."


©
Maya Angelou


Inspirational Quotes

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"If we have no peace, it's because we've forgotten that we belong to each other."-Mother Teresa

"When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace."-Jimi Hendrix

"We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot."-Eleanor Roosevelt

"At the center of your being you have the answer; you know who you are and you know what you want."-Lao Tzu

"Your sacred space is where you find yourself again and again."-Joseph Campbell

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"Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well."-Vincent Van Gogh

"People who are connected to their energy, including their sexuality and their passion, are in tune with the divine, for expressing the inherently loving side of human nature is the core of unfeigned spirituality."-Wilhelm Reich

"Home is where one starts from. As we grow older
The world becomes stranger, the pattern more complicated
Of dead and living. Not the intense moment
Isolated, with no before and after,
But a lifetime burning in every moment
And not the lifetime of one man only
But of old stones that cannot be deciphered.
There is a time for the evening under starlight,
A time for the evening under lamplight
(The evening with the photograph album).
Love is most nearly itself
When here and now cease to matter.
Old men ought to be explorers
Here or there does not matter
We must be still and still moving
Into another intensity
For a further union, a deeper communion
Through the dark cold and the empty desolation,
The wave cry, the wind cry, the vast waters
Of the petrel and the porpoise. In my end is my beginning."- T. S. Elliott

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"A Vision without a task is just a dream.
A task without vision is drudgery.
But if I have a vision AND a task,
I can change the world."-Black Elk

"You must remain your own witness, marking well everything that happens in this world, never shutting your eyes to reality. You must come to grips with these terrible times, and try to find answers to the questions that they pose. And perhaps your answers may help not only yourself but also others."-Etty Hillesum, "An Interrupted Life"

"One isn't necessarily born with courage, but one is born with potential. Without courage, we cannot practice any other virtue with consistency. We can't be kind, true, merciful, generous, or honest."-Maya Angelou

"People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out,
but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is light from within."-Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

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"Why not seize the pleasure at once? How often is happiness destroyed by preparation, foolish preparation!"-Jane Austen

"The butterfly is a flying flower....The flower a tethered butterfly."-Ponce Denis Écouchard Lebrun

"We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes
it has gone through to achieve that beauty."-
Maya Angelou


"Confidence never comes from having all the answers; it comes from being open to all the questions."-Earl Gray Stevens

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"Nowhere can man find a quieter or more untroubled retreat than in his own soul."-Marcus Aurelius

"THIS world is not conclusion;
A sequel stands beyond,
Invisible, as music,
But positive, as sound.
It beckons and it baffles;
Philosophies don't know,
And through a riddle, at the last,
Sagacity must go.
To guess it puzzles scholars;
To gain it, men have shown
Contempt of generations,
And crucifixion unknown."-Emily Dickinson

"According to Buddhism, your unhappiness is never really caused by circumstances. The real cause of unhappiness is your belief that your happiness is caused by circumstances.

You do not have to accomplish or acquire or earn anything to experience peace, love, and joy now. You do not have to "make" your own happiness all you have to do is to stop making yourself unhappy and to remember your own deepest truth as a being of Spirit.

Does this mean that we simply give up all of our desires and dreams? No, because it's not the goals and dreams that are the problem, but rather how we understand and live toward them. Going for your dreams can be an intrinsic part of the joy and passion of your life and can be how you concretely express the love and joy that are your truth. But as soon as you (choose to) believe that your happiness is dependent on a certain outcome, or that "things" have to change for you to be happy, then you are living in fear. You are no longer expressing your joy, but are desperately trying to achieve or earn it."
-William R. Yoder Ph.D

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"If you should take the human heart and listen to, it would be listening to a seashell. You would hear in it the hollow murmur of the infinite ocean to which it belongs, from which it draws its profoundest inspiration, and for which it yearns to return."-Edwin Chapin

"This is not the time to stay at home,
But to go out and give yourself to the garden.
The dawn of joy has arisen,
And this is the moment of union, of vision."-Rumi

"There is a difference between Tough and Strong. "Tough" means you have armor on, and cannot feel. "Strong" means that you're available to be touched, and are willing to deal with the manifold sensations that go along with letting others come into close proximity with your tender parts."-The Reconnection

"The intuitive mind is a sacred gift
The rational mind is a faithful servant.
We have created a society that honours the servant
But has forgotten the gift."-Albert Einstein


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"Each friend represents a world in us, a world not born until they arrive,
and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."-Anais Nin

Be confident enough that you won't settle for a compromise just to get by.

Appreciate yourself by allowing yourself the opportunities to grow, develop, and find your true sense of purpose in this life.

Don't stand in someone else's shadow when it's your sunlight that should lead the way.

Allow your own inner light to guide you.

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Welcome and Hello


image Hello My Lovelies! Welcome to my home away from home. I welcome all who venture into my little realm and take part of my life and that which motivates me.

What virtually makes my life enjoyable is my family, down to earth folk, laughter [can get right down silly], a deep abiding compassion for others, poetry [have been known to write a little], art [which is my passion], reading [especially Koontz, Cornwell and all in the same genre]. Now music is another matter. My taste is eclectic, but Jazz and Native American music just gets the ole ticker thumpin' like crazy! And I just love the saxophone, guitar and flute.
Love to travel when the opportunity arises, and have been to Belize, Missouri, Florida, Arizona, and Oklahoma; all of which I would happily return to in a heartbeat! I also attend PowWows; we have one every August here.
Oh yeah, I'm also a Maxine fan of the first order; thanks to my sister Val!

If you like getting a tad bit crazy [if you dare], then come visit us at 'Waiting to Exhale.' Click the tab above. Love meeting people, so look forward to seeing you and sharing friendships!

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Skye

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Creators Garden of Flowers

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"Flowers Leave Their Fragrance On the Hand That Bestows Them"

There's an old Chinese proverb
that, if practiced each day,
Would change the whole world
in a wonderful way -
Its truth is so simple,
it's so easy to do
And it works every time
and successfully too. . .
For you can't do a kindness
without a reward,
Not in silver nor gold
but in the joy from the Lord -
You can't light a candle
to show others the way
Without feeling the warmth
of that bright little ray . . .
And you can't pluck a rose,
all fragrant with dew,
Without part of its fragrance
remaining with you.

Helen Steiner Rice


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Reason, Season, Lifetime


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A Reason, A Season, and A Lifetime


People always come into your life for a reason, a season and a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are. They are there for a reason, you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time,this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace of make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.

LIFETIME, relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people [anyway]; and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being part of my life......

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You ARE Enough

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Most of us have the feeling that we are here to accomplish something big in our lives, and if we haven't done something that fits the bill we may feel as if we are waiting. We may feel incomplete, or empty, as if our lives don't yet make sense to us, because they don't line up with our idea of major accomplishment. In some cases, this may be because we really are meant to do something that we haven't yet done. But in most cases, we can let ourselves off the hook with the realization that just being here, being ourselves, is enough.

As we live our lives in this world, we share our energy and our spirit with the people around us in numerous ways. Our influence touches their lives and, through them, touches the lives of many more people. When we strive to live our lives to the fullest and to become our true selves, we are doing something big on an inner level, and that is more than enough to make sense of our being here on this planet at this time. There is no need to hold ourselves to an old idea in the back of our minds that we need to make headlines or single-handedly save the world in order to validate our existence.

We can each look within our hearts to discover what is true for us, what gives our lives meaning, and what excites us. We can release ourselves from any pressure to perform that comes from outside of our inner sense of purpose. Staying in tune with our own values and living our lives in tune with our own vision is all we need in order to fulfill our time here. Our lives are a process of becoming so that we cannot help but cocreate; being who we are, responding to each moment as it comes, we can trust that this is enough.


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~ Yigaquu osaniyu adanvto adadoligi nigohilvi nasquv utloyasdi nihi ~
[May the Great Spirit's Blessings Always be With You]

Skye